When childhood adversities like financial instability and the challenges of boarding school shape one’s life, it often results in a unique approach to success. Our guest, Matthew Speyer, shares his compelling journey from these early struggles to becoming a seasoned coach for multinational companies. Learn how his logical and structured mindset, coupled with academic achievements and scholarships, built his self-confidence. Matthew also reveals the transformative impact of reconnecting with his emotional side through acting and psychotherapy, offering a well-rounded perspective on personal and professional growth.
Trust—it’s the bedrock of any meaningful relationship, whether personal or professional. In this episode, Matthew discusses the critical role of non-naive trust, illustrated through the sale of his business to the Global Coaching Group. We explore how mutual trust can facilitate the transaction of immaterial assets and delve into the evolving nature of leadership. Emotional intelligence and vulnerability emerge as crucial elements, especially in a world where authoritarian leaders are on the rise. Matthew’s insights bring to light the complexities of balancing trust, vulnerability, and effective leadership in today’s dynamic environment.
As we journey through life’s later stages, embracing change and facing fears become paramount. Matthew shares his transition from structured career paths to a more fluid, intuitive approach to work and personal fulfillment. The metaphor of slaying dragons vividly illustrates the continuous cycle of growth and adaptation. Discover how balancing determination with the acceptance of life’s larger forces and maintaining faith—whether in oneself or a higher power—can lead to profound personal transformation. This episode underscores the importance of recognizing vulnerability in leadership and fostering a supportive community, offering valuable lessons for navigating both professional and personal landscapes.
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Malcolm Stern has worked as a group and individual psychotherapist for more than 30 years. He was a co-founder of Alternatives at St James’s Church in London and runs groups internationally.
He is the author of Falling in Love / Staying in Love (Piatkus 2004) and Slay Your Dragons with Compassion ( Watkins 2020). He co-presented Channel 4’s relationship series, ‘Made for Each Other’ in 2003 and 2004 and sailed on the ‘Rainbow Warrior’ with Greenpeace in the 1980s. The book he is currently writing is an exploration of the shadow and its necessity in our evolutionary development.
Malcolm Stern in conversation with guests overcoming & thriving through adversity.
